Intro View

The doctor of the psychic
Any system is submitted to change.If its integrity and harmony is not supported through specific actions, it finally destroys itself.
The laws of a system are those specific actions made by the system’s elements in order to maintain its harmony and existence; they are also the main conditions for reaching the other purposes of that system.

In any system may appear (from different reasons) some disturbing elements which break these laws and which act in a way which lead to the destruction of that system’s existence.
This law’s breaking is pointed out by the signaling elements of the system and it is necessary a intervention in force in order to protect the elements of the system (helped or not by the other elements inside of the system or even by the exterior systems) and in order to stop the manifestation of the disturbing elements and in this way to restore the system’s harmony.
In the case of the physical one this process is an obvious one:.... read more

The link conscious - subconscious

How are the judgments made? In the evolution of the judgments, the first form is that in which we learn to speak. This is the process through which we associate different perceived processes with their corresponding sounds and/or images (for deafs and dumbs).
If we associate some sounds (words, names) with some perceived processes and states (linked by motion, objects, space, time, causality) we can say that the reason is in fact just another form of perception: a perception of the names... read more

The psychical automatic processes
But what means, what is a psychical automatic process?

To clarify this, first let’s give some examples of automatic processes: writing, speaking, cycling, fastening the shoe laces, walking, driving, etc.; all these are psychic automatic processes linked by the psyche; and studying them we’ll be able to understand the mechanisms of some other psychical automatic processes regarding-let’s say - the behavior like: the pride and anger, the fear and sadness, the laziness and greed, the debauchery.
Thus, we can see that in the case of the writing and speaking, the massive intervention of the conscious is necessary only when we create them in ourselves.
When we learn each letter or word, we must be careful how are they drawn or pronounced; then its necessary an aware attention to repeat them as many times is possible, until we memorize them (they strengthen in themselves). But after this process is realized the intervention of the conscience is necessary only for breaking them out (and sometimes not even then).
After that they can take place automatically without being necessary for us to be careful to each letter or word we pronounce.... read more

The link between the conscience and supraconscious
The Supraconscious is that “Voice of the Conscience” which knows when we have in our psyche some wrong judgments (one or more) and which signalizes to us this thing by the presence in the psyche (in the same time in which the wrong judgments take place) of the signal of psychical suffering (stress, anxiety, agitation, state of “interior sick”, discomfort etc).

This signal is characteristic to each wrong judgment: one thing is the psychic suffering specific to the pride (to the conceit, to the vanity), another one is that specific to the anger and a total different one is that specific to the fear or sadness.
But all can be characterized as being states of “sickness”, of “agitation”, of stress and anxiety.
But how does the Supraconscious know that a judgment is wrong?.... read more

What exactly means that a judgment is wrong?

A judgment is wrong when it doesn’t reflect the reality as it is in that moment (there’s not a clear perception of the reality).
The judgments (the mental attitudes) are always followed by some actions: certain judgments and attitudes produce certain actions and not other ones.
The judgments which generate actions meant to the maintenance and the development of the System of the Systems harmony (with its different component elements: the Social system, the Natural system, the system of the human beings, the systems of the other beings) can be called correct judgments.
But the judgments meant for the destruction of the harmony will be called wrong judgments.... read more

The emotions seen as signals
The emotions, what is generally understood through emotions, are those states and signals send by the Supraconscious in order to indicate the state of the human being’s psychical system at a given moment.
As I’ve already mentioned, they are intimately linked by the judgments which produced them.
When we keep in our psyche some wrong judgments the Supraconscious signalizes to us this situation immediately through a state of specific psychical suffering appeared under the form of what is generally called “negative emotions” like: the fear, the terror, the anger, the fury.... read more

The false expectation
Most of our judgments are, first of all, predictions of the future according to which we’ll then act.
If these predictions of the future are wrong; I mean if when we put them into practice we don’t obtain what we expect to; it means that that judgment is wrong, that it’s characterized by a false expectation.
For example... read more

The attachment
The attachment of something means to get tied of that something.

If we deeply realize that this link, this attachment of an object, of a human being or creature, of a phenomenon is not and it can’t be anything more than a temporary state which sooner or later is about to destroy itself, (and then we attach of other objects, beings, states) in the moment of breaking the link we won’t be surprised and we’ll accept it as it is (especially if it is impossible to be restored –a being dies, some objects burn, some states are created by some unique circumstances which will never happen again, etc.).... read more

The regret
In the case of the regret we attach ourselves by the past, by an unreality, by a link with an object, a being or a state which doesn’t exist anymore and we want to restore that link how it was.
In this case the false expectation is obvious; each moment is unique and impossible to be repeated because of the infinite number of factors which interact in order to produce it; due to the continuous changes which characterize the creation, it will never be reproduced exactly in the same way.... read more

The hope

The groundless hope is a false expectation, too.We expect that some factors exterior to us to solve the problems which can be solved only by ourselves and not by anybody else; or we expect us to solve the problems which can be solved only by the others.
In order to identify what we can do and what we can’t, it’s necessary a careful analysis of ourselves and of the environment.
In this analysis we are helped by the signals of the Supraconscious.- for instance, when we’re angry or sad with somebody.... read more

The ignoring of the resistances
In all that we want to do or we do, we are faced with some bigger or smaller resistances, depending on the circumstances.
No matter of what we want to do, no matter how insignificant is the action we want to perform, some resistances, of one kind or another, will undoubtedly appear.
The resistances are all that opposes to the reaching of an objective we may have at a given moment.
And it’s important to realize that no matter what the objective is; the resistances will appear for sure.
The wrong attitude towards the resistances means.... read more

The obsession
Obsession, as a psychical signal, appears when a change of the system took place and we are late in adapting ourselves at this change (to restore the harmony destroyed by these change).
As a psychical signal, the obsession appears as a form of manifestation of the psychic suffering which increases in intensity with its each repetition.... read more

The indecision
The indecision is closely related with the maintenance of some obsessions in our psyche.When a change appears, we must adapt ourselves immediately to it; when a disturbing element starts to manifest, it must be eliminated as soon as possible if we don’t want to increase more the damages made by it in the system.
The more undetermined we are, the more we lengthen the period of reaction, of restoration of the destroyed harmony and in this way we increase the disharmony.... read more

A case study: the love
In the phenomenon usually called “falling in love” or love, a lot of important factors interact. That’s why it is very important to understand each of them if we really want to understand deeply this phenomenon.

So, the common love known by the majority of the people includes a lot of elements which interact each other.
They are:-the obsession and indecision,-the groundless attachment,-the sexual attraction,- the effective love which can manifest itself as a trade - love or as an unconditioned love.
Now let’s see what happens in the case of the phenomenon of “falling in love”:... read more

Other forms of the judgments’ distortion
Other forms of wrong judgments characterized by a specific type of false expectation are:
1. The personalization - It consists in expecting that a certain effect (state, situation, phenomenon) to have one single cause.... read more

The general form of the false expectations
After we presented some of the forms of manifestation of the false expectations (and saw that they are the real cause of the wrong judgments), we could try to identify their general formula suitable for other specific situations, too.
First of all, it will be noticed the presence of “should” in this formula (respectively “shouldn’t”) used with the value of the categorical imperative
(“It should be in this way; it’s impossible to be in another one”).
For example: .... read more